Saturday, February 14, 2015

February // Black History Month // Coming Soon //


February, such a wonderful short month. Most first thoughts are Valentine's Day, and Black History month! Which is I guess the normal for the this month! 

First and foremost I want to thank everyone who takes the time out of there day to read my blog!!! It means so much to me, you all are appreciated!!

Now on to Valentine's Day... Today which is 02/14/2015 I did a bunch of nothing! Mostly because my Valentine plans were yesterday in which I went to see Fifty Shades of Grey, and had dinner with my love. We will get in to Fifty Shades of Grey here in a moment, But I want to discuss Valentines day a bit more. I watched my facebook, and twitter closely today to see everyone post, to view every one's little babies all dolled up etc. I could not help but realize that Valentine's day has become yet another competition, who gets the most stuff who got what etc etc. To the point where even I was like "damn I was cheated mfs out here getting shoes and shit I just went to dinner and a movie." I had to stop and snap back into reality! I have never EVER been materialistic, not with my money or the next ones money... MONEY NOR THINGS can buy happiness, if your not happy your not happy and you can buy all the things in the world and you still will not be happy. 

Valentine's Day used to resemble romance, and love, and now it seems to just be another 'MY GIFTS/boy/girl/friend is better then yours or deal. 

SO I stand firm when I say I am happy to have exchanged beautiful card with my love and have a lovely outing! Because we however do not only show our love on one day but yet all year long!! 

I did enjoy seeing every one's children, the couples pics, and gifts today tho! It is nice to see love does still exist!   


 Black History Month!!! Man oh Man!! A little inside joke, I was always told I had to choose either the beginning or the end of February to celebrate, because I am only half black so I only get half the month lol!!!! It always made me laugh!!! 

      But on a more serious level... it sickens me to know that so many people gave there life's fighting for our rights to be free, to have equal rights to be considered humans at the very least...and to watch the hatred we all have towards one another etc. It makes me just really question why?! Like If Martin Luther King Jr. was here today he would honestly be pissed... There is so much rivalry being held against our own people. Like why are we not lifting each other up, rather then knocking each other down to get ahead? Racism is not something someone is born with it is taught on both sides!!!
        How can one say that white men have the power card etc, and yet in the same sentence one is teaching the younger youth to not like white people... AS LONG AS WE ARE KILLING EACH OTHER OFF WE STAND DIVIDED!!!! Like for real we need to STAND UNITED be strong for each other, and help each other out more... The consist competition etc is dumb you all look dumb like get it together we need to be together, and strong!!! Lets make a difference!!! Lets make MLK Jr. proud! Each change starts within us first though!!!




OMG OMG OMG, so I am not sure of how many people really know how I have always had a interest in ASL= American Sign Language! But I have always been very interested in it just never really acted on it. What drawn me further into ASL was I worked at a factory, and I met a women there who was Deaf, and I loved her she was kind, and patient... But I felt like the supervisors did not take the time needed during our huddles so that she could read their lips and know what was going on it made me feel some sort of way. Like she was just dis-guarded. So slowly but surely I taught my self the ASL alphabet and a few words I knew we used often at work, so I could help fill her in... We talked much! She gave me different sites, and books to go to to learn more ASL it was beautiful!! Secondly I'm a big ABC FAMILY NERD lol and ABC Family has a show called Switched At Birth, which one of the main characters is also deaf and there is alot of signing going on in the show so it also helps me learn different words etc...

ANYHOO I have been thinking long and hard about what is a job I would love to go to every day!! Like what do I love doing?!? Because Lord knows I find it hard to commit to things lol. Then it hit me I love signing like I love it so much, and I also LOVE helping people so what would be better then to become a Certified Interpreter!!   I looked into it and sure enough I start classes on Wednesday! And I am honestly so excited and nervous all at once!!!

However I have no doubt that this is not the road I should be taking and I am beyond blessed, and excited to start this new chapter!!! 


Okay before I end this little segment, I must discuss Fifty Shades of Grey!!! I have heard about the book forever it seems like, but never read it... I bought the whole series a few weeks back with my sister, and still I went to see the movie before I read the book... MANNNNNN that movie was everything! had me holding out my wrist ready to be taken to The Red Room of Pain lol... I am half way through the first book, and its GOOD so I suggest it to be a MUST READ SEE ETC... like I am sure no one will dislike this book... or MOVIE so if you haven already and you are looking for a good read FIFTY SHADES OF GREY!!! DO IT!!!! You will love it!!!

Now back to my coming soon!!! I am still doing research on the "Why people hate White women with Black Men" Blog I assure you it is almost finished and will be coming soon! I also have several other ideas for blogs. BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY I would like to hear from the readers!!! What topics would you all like me to Discuss or write about!?? I have no issue bring out what is on demand!!! so hit my inbox let me know if there is any topics you all would like me to write about and I will!!! I keep my BLOG 100% I do not lie or what not, I say how I feel exactly!!! it is all me!! so Let me know lets make some stuff happen!!!! 

Until then here is a short list of upcoming topics you all should stay tuned!!
1. Why People hate White Women With Black Men
2. How Many is To Many? // Sexual
3. Sideline Chicks // Men 
4. Animal Food Bank Fundraiser!
5.Randomness LOTS OF RANDOMNESS

lol anyhoo thanks again everyone for reading!!!